What to Expect During a Family Portrait Session

Now that you have booked a photography session and chosen the clothes (click here for clothing tips, if you haven't already done so) how do you prepare for the session? Here are some tips and tricks to make a session run more smoothly.

GOAL:  

My main objective as a portrait photographer is understanding and connecting with the person(s) that I am photographing. I have been repeatedly informed that I excel at this. I take time to get to know my subjects. Or, alternately, if I am photographing candid images, I study facial expressions from afar and allow my subject space to not feel my presence - because I am hunting for their natural reaction. During family sessions I will alternate between asking for certain, specific poses and asking my clients to play games and enjoy one another - so, I can capture true natural reactions. Secondary to that (but probably most importantly) I want it to be a positive experience for everyone. I honestly feel that a successful session is one where everyone has a great time.

I will attempt to gain the attention of your kids at the very beginning of the session. Mainly because children assume that the family photo process is going to be a drag. I want them involved, engaged and loving it. So, if I pull kiddos aside at the beginning, it’s because I am attempting to warm them up to the experience. I will play a game with them and my camera where they show me all their best silly faces (and usually it makes them smile for real.) I’ve been known to say “film is free” meaning: I will take as many photos as needed to pull a beautiful / perfect family portrait out of what feels like a lot of goofing around. Because that is the nature of kids. The more you fight their impulse to be wild, free and themselves, the harder it will be to create happy photos. Please be patient with this process. It’s crucial for me to connect with your kids in order to make the rest of the session successful.

POSING GROUPS: 

  • I prefer group portraits of people who love one another to show that love by touching one another - in whatever feels comfortable to all parties. 

  • I pose bodies very closer together to showcase that bond. I’ve been known to say: “closer, closer, closer” and / or “get huggy” because I want you to connect, love on one another and laugh.

  • I tend to give baseline directions at the beginning of a session and detailed direction as the photo shoot progresses. 

  • If I am not giving direction, that means everything is going fine. 

  • If I am acting eerily calm, chances are I am trying to not rile up a dog or baby.  

  • Slight, subtle body movements between shutter clicks are always preferred over one pose photographed seventeen times. Don’t be afraid of movement. My cameras / I can keep up.

  • Often poses feel awkward but look good - trust the process.

  • If you feel uncomfortable or have any questions with any posing or placement, let me know.

  • I am here to help with posing - that’s my job!

A NOTE FOR PARENTS:  

  • Please arrive camera ready.

  • Please have well-rested, well-fed kids prior to sessions.

  • Please look directly at the camera - unless told otherwise.

  • When I am attempting to capture the attention of a child, just look at me. Please resist the urge to look at them.

  • I will work hard to gain the attention of your children, grandma, dog, etc. Let me do

  • When I am trying to obtain candid images, I will literally say “just ignore me / pretend I am not here.” I will also intermittently promote that you play with your family.

  • If you wish to reward your child with a special treat for good behavior, please do so after our session is complete. I like to avoid editing candy out of teeth wherever possible. 

  • Remember: digital film is “free!” If I have to take a thousand goofy photos to get one great one, let’s do just that. 

  • If your child needs a break for any reason, do not hesitate to alert me. I am a Mom. I get it. 

MOOD: 

  • The calmer you are, the calmer your kiddos will be. 

  • Please keep the interactions calm and purposeful.

  • Wherever possible, it’s often best to allow me to direct. Too much noise (even the most well intended requests for eye contact) can be overwhelming.

  • Go straight to whatever you think will make them laugh - (tickling, body fluid / noise jokes and raspberries are strongly encouraged.) 

  • Try to hold their attention in the direction of my camera.

  • Feel free to stand right above me. Just give me a warning that you are there first - to avoid collision - I’ve been known to move quickly. 

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